Hi Dave - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just under 2 years and we have the most fantastic sex life.
In fact, just after we met he told me he was into "all sorts" and wanted me to dress up in leather and rubber gear.
At first I was a bit unsure but because I really liked him I gave in.
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One night though out of the blue he just burst into tears and confessed that he's sleeping with 2 other women.
I was stunned and ordered him out of my flat.
Since then he's sent me texts and left messages telling me he couldn't help it and that he's only done it because he thinks he's got some sort of "sex disease" and that he can't get enough.
The trouble is I really loved him and still do and was wondering if you think he'll ever come back to me?
Ceri, Ringland.
Sorry Ceri, I really don't think he will, and to be honest, you're better off without this guy because if he truly loved you he wouldn't be treating you like a piece of meat.
When he talks of having, as he calls it, a sex disease, I think he's trying to say he feels he has an obsessive disorder where, unfortunately for you, he needs more than one woman in his life.
You've done nothing wrong here and you need to recognise that, but you really do need to stay away from this bloke.
I'm afraid he'll continue to lead a very unhappy life if he continues in this way, but more than that, he'll make these other women unhappy too!
What a mess he's in.
It may sound harsh but forget all about him and let him seek help by himself if he wants to be rid of this habit.
In time, you may just realise how lucky you've been that you've got out of this relationship now.
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